| Sound Advice For The Lean Spouse |
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JSABD
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Posted: 18 Jan 2012 06:52 pm |
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You can beg and plead and cajole but if your spouse is a fat spouse none of that will work. Indulging their food lust mean more to them than you do. I hate to tell you that but it's the truth and I think you know it. Now accept it.
Your spouse is out of control. Their vulgar hedonism is what motivates them so stop making excuses for them. It's not helping.
The chances of your spouse losing weight and keeping it off are slim and none. False hope will only leave you disappointed. Your fatty may talk a good diet but it probably won't happen.
Is all hope lost? No. Chances are your spouse will not reform and abandon the gluttonous ways of a food#%@&! but there are some things you can do.
TAKE CONTROL!
Your Fat Spouse is OUT OF CONTROL. His/her food lust is what makes them behave so badly. Combined with fattitude and head hunger the resolve of a fatty to indulge their hedonistic food lust and greedy gluttony is formibable.
Don't allow your gluttonous spouse to buy food until he/she can show some responsibility.
Do not have sex with your fat spouse but do not rule out the idea of having sex with someone else during the reform process.
Chances are your fat spouse will not reform and sadly there is not enough of me to go around and remove their fattitude so you have to face the inevitable. Your fat spouse is going to remain fat and probably get fatter. Your golden years will be tarnished. You will have a sexless marriage. Your spouse's health will continue to decline and his/her body will be ravaged by the diseases that come with gluttony, food lust and fattitude.
IF YOU HAVE KIDS
Keep them away from the bad role model. If their gandparents are responsible then have them spend a lot of time with them. That way your spouse will have less influence.
You should feed your kids. Fat parents are child abusers. They use treats to train kid like and animal trainer. Play with your kids. Don't plop them in front of the TV with a bag of chips.
HAVE AN AFFAIR.
Divorce is sometimes out of the question but that is no reason for why you cannot have a good sex life and there is no reason for you to sneak around. Let your fat spouse know that you are grossed out by the blubber and you want to be with a real woman/man. If your spouse objects tough titty said the kitty when the milk went dry. Your spouse brought this on his/herself.
Stay tuned for how to get your fat spouse to reform.
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