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JSABD
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Posted: 6 Jan 2012 06:00 pm |
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"I have to do this for me" is a famous pseudo profoundity that many fat girls blurt out when considering weight loss. It's BS. It's complete and total BS.
OK fat girl why do you have to do this for you? That's the problem. You eat like a pig for you because you like the way it feels. That is what you are doing for you. You don't care what your gluttony is doing to your loved ones because if you did you would eat responsibly. You barely give your negative effect on others a second thought.
Let's take the fat mother. She has to do it for her kids and if she doesn't she's a BAD MOTHER!
Come at me fatties and tell me how mean I am.
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Nir
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Posted: 7 Jan 2012 10:16 am |
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| My brother is fat. He is almost obese. He has little awareness of this. It bothers me and my parents more than it does him. I (and my parents) can tell him he should lose weight, but it has no effect - he has no motivation. Clearly doing it for any of us is not interesting to him. Now, if I found a way to motivate him to lose weight for himself then it would get done. A few years back he was dieting with purpose when he was single, looking for a partner and believing this would increase his chances. Unfortunately for his health, he is not single at present.
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BossladyKim
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Posted: 7 Jan 2012 04:13 pm |
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| Well a lot of girls lose weight because a MAN has told them they were fat or a family member said they were fat etc... so yea that motto is encouraging for some girls and guys. Me myself trying to lose weight because I wanna look good in a bathing suit this summer so you can't knock someone for hyping themselves up to losing weight because I dont care what anybody says but losing weight is a real struggle. Maybe it is easy for you, a male, that has larger muscles that loses more body fat, that has not and never will have a child or has to go on birth control or anything like that which are all things that make women fat that men dont have to worry about... so no you are not "mean" for posting this but you could at least have a little more compassion for those women that struggle with weight..
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JSABD
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Posted: 7 Jan 2012 10:55 pm |
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Nir wrote: My brother is fat. He is almost obese. He has little awareness of this. It bothers me and my parents more than it does him. I (and my parents) can tell him he should lose weight, but it has no effect - he has no motivation. Clearly doing it for any of us is not interesting to him. Now, if I found a way to motivate him to lose weight for himself then it would get done. A few years back he was dieting with purpose when he was single, looking for a partner and believing this would increase his chances. Unfortunately for his health, he is not single at present.
Here is an interesting idea. Why should he lose weight? It would be be in his best interest but hedonistic gluttonous lust means more to him than personal responsibility. Is there really another provable reason? His food lust means more to him than his family. He like many fatlings may eat himself to death and his parents will be at his funeral but he doesn't care.
Doing it for selfish reasons rarely works. His motivation now is sex. Like many people as soon as he lands a spouse he will take her for granted and get fat. With fatlings eventually food means more to them than sex. It's easier and more available.
In my practice the people who are successful do it for altruistic reasons. They do it because it is the right thing to do.
To may way of think the most important reason to not me fat and unhealthy is family. People with that mind set are less likely to get fat or stay fat.
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JSABD
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Posted: 7 Jan 2012 11:09 pm |
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BossladyKim wrote: Well a lot of girls lose weight because a MAN has told them they were fat or a family member said they were fat etc... so yea that motto is encouraging for some girls and guys. Me myself trying to lose weight because I wanna look good in a bathing suit this summer so you can't knock someone for hyping themselves up to losing weight because I dont care what anybody says but losing weight is a real struggle. Maybe it is easy for you, a male, that has larger muscles that loses more body fat, that has not and never will have a child or has to go on birth control or anything like that which are all things that make women fat that men dont have to worry about... so no you are not "mean" for posting this but you could at least have a little more compassion for those women that struggle with weight..
Grow up you silly WOMYN. I think it is time you step off your ego trip and stop whining and blaming female metabolism.
Men have higher metabolic rates but the fact is in the US there are more fat men than women so there goe your lame excuses and BS theory.
Maybe if you spent more time cooking healthy food instead of bashing men you would not be a whiny fat girl.
This is a WOMYN.
This is a woman.
Bossladykim, if a woman eats 2000 calories of less and moves she cannot be fat! There is no reason for why you can't do that.
Your reasons for not being a fatling are 100% selfish. You want to look good on the beach. That's extremely shallow and that's the problem. Think about that long and hard womyn.
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grangers710
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Posted: 7 Jan 2012 11:09 pm |
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why do I bother reading this garbage....this tough love section needs to be modified....
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JSABD
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Posted: 7 Jan 2012 11:50 pm |
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grangers710 wrote: why do I bother reading this garbage....this tough love section needs to be modified....
Fat girls spew a lot of garbage but that is what comes with fattitude. Knocking out fattitude is not pretty but a fatling will not lose the weight until they lose the fattitude.
Fatlings need to be allowed to speak freely. If you find what they have to say too distasteful then avoid this forum. This is not for the faint of heart or girly men.
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Nir
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Posted: 7 Jan 2012 11:51 pm |
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Doing it for selfish reasons rarely works. His motivation now is sex.
What I thought I said is that no, he has no motivation to lose weight, so he is doing nothing about it. In my opinion any motivation that would see him changing his ways would be preferable to the way he is killing himself at present. Thus, being pragmatic, I will take a 'selfish' motivation over no motivation.
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grangers710
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Posted: 7 Jan 2012 11:57 pm |
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JASDB or whoever you are, I dont know what your deal is, why you're hear or what, but your approach sucks. I have yet to see someone benefit from your posts. The way you speak is insulting enough. You just sound stupid that's the bottom line. Tough love is for someone to come and get their butt kicked in the right direction, not an excuse for someone to sit on their soapbox and talk garbage attacking people overweight. Your presence at this site sickens me and I still can't believe you havent been booted. I'd rather read 100 posts about some diet pill or whatever with a link then read the garbage you're spewing. Someone that has benefited from this guys ramblings, please step out and say something....many people are here to help and we all help in our own way and maybe your ridiculous posts are helping someone, who knows....
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JSABD
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 12:04 am |
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Nir wrote: Doing it for selfish reasons rarely works. His motivation now is sex.
What I thought I said is that no, he has no motivation to lose weight, so he is doing nothing about it. In my opinion any motivation that would see him changing his ways would be preferable to the way he is killing himself at present. Thus, being pragmatic, I will take a 'selfish' motivation over no motivation.
It never lasts. He will yo yo which is worse than being fat. Doing it for a selfish reason does not address the underlying problem which is ego centrism.
Fatlings need to know that obesity is the result of a moral failing. When they realize that their egos can't handle it they change.
Have you ever heard of a dry drunk? They can be worse than a drunk drunk. He needs to know that he is a big baby and a selfish turd. Show him this and see if he has the balls to to toe to toe with me.
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grangers710
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 12:06 am |
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wow...this is just becoming comical
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BossladyKim
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 12:53 am |
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| I agree this dude has takin too many steroids
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BossladyKim
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 01:01 am |
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| Silly womyn? Who are you to tell me about how selfish I am? You don't know me from Eve so your views of me wanting to look good in abathing suit is beyond me.. Everyone who loses weight wants to look good and feel good DUH!!!! Lmao it's silly u call me fat I'm no where close to that hideous pic you posted your views of a perfect woman is your opinion just like plenty of guys views of a perfect woman looks like me. I have no other reason to want to lose weight but to look good! I have no health problems so my reasons are my reasons as long as I'm getting healthier right? Wow you really need to reprogram your brain and stay off that dope you sound like a lunatic!
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JSABD
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 01:27 am |
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grangers710 wrote: JASDB or whoever you are, I dont know what your deal is, why you're hear or what, but your approach sucks. I have yet to see someone benefit from your posts. The way you speak is insulting enough. You just sound stupid that's the bottom line. Tough love is for someone to come and get their butt kicked in the right direction, not an excuse for someone to sit on their soapbox and talk garbage attacking people overweight. Your presence at this site sickens me and I still can't believe you havent been booted. I'd rather read 100 posts about some diet pill or whatever with a link then read the garbage you're spewing. Someone that has benefited from this guys ramblings, please step out and say something....many people are here to help and we all help in our own way and maybe your ridiculous posts are helping someone, who knows....
A lot of people have benefited from my sage spot on posts. Here you are flexing in front of a mirror to impress people.  What a jerk off!
If you don't like what I write sissy boy don't read it.
CPH is the most effective online weight loss forum but even here the results are not earth shattering. I have helped may people here.
I bet you think you have all the answers. You don't. Opinions are like #%@&!s, everybody has one. I know someone is an #%@&! when they use the words spew or spewing. You forgot to call what I write venom.
Obviously you are a girly man and that is why you have the need to flex in front of a mirror. You will end up looking like that Republican retard Arnold Schwarzenegger. He's a real pussy now.
Are you here trying to score a fat girl.
I'm here to help and you are here to massage your ego. Man up boy.
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JSABD
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 01:45 am |
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BossladyKim
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 02:07 am |
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| Lmao !!! You know nothing about me you silly little boy you sit here and find pics to post like the nerd you are and criticize everyone but yourself it's odd that you call everyone shallow when u are the one with the pic of your body but no face I bet you are butt ugly you need to focus on your bad attitude then try to create a fat girl life for me .. For your information I was in the military stayed a perfect size 6 at 5'11 and was offered plenty of modeling gigs years later I stayed a healthy size until I had twins and even at my heaviest being pregnant I never was fat so get off your high horse because those skinny little arms and twig legs you have aren't cutting it Lmao! At least grangers710 looks like a real man... Grow up little Peter pan I'm done waisting my time schooling you
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JSABD
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 05:12 am |
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BossladyKim wrote: Lmao !!! You know nothing about me you silly little boy you sit here and find pics to post like the nerd you are and criticize everyone but yourself it's odd that you call everyone shallow when u are the one with the pic of your body but no face I bet you are butt ugly you need to focus on your bad attitude then try to create a fat girl life for me .. For your information I was in the military stayed a perfect size 6 at 5'11 and was offered plenty of modeling gigs years later I stayed a healthy size until I had twins and even at my heaviest being pregnant I never was fat so get off your high horse because those skinny little arms and twig legs you have aren't cutting it Lmao! At least grangers710 looks like a real man... Grow up little Peter pan I'm done waisting my time schooling you
They didn't teach you how to spell. Waisting? Is that what you call making your belly bigger. It's spelled wasting.
Now I have skinny legs and arms? The last time you insulted me I on steroids. Make up your mind loser. Your hatred for lean people comes through. Face it. Men prefer slender women.
Size 6? Now you are really lying.
The Offical U.S Misses size chart places size 6 between
"small" and "medium". A size 6 woman has the following
measurements: Bust: 34?óÔé¼?Ø, waist: 26.5?óÔé¼?Ø, Hips:
36.5.
According to published reports, Kim
Kardashian is 5'3" and a size 6 in this
picture.
Modeling gigs huh? Did they want you to model the Hindenberg collection? Post up your picture and let's see what you really look like. Never mind I found this one on your profile
Boss Lady Kim large and in charge!
You have lost ALL credibility fat girl. If you were a size six you would have to weigh about 125 pounds or less and less in your case because you are 5'11". That would put your BMI at 16.7 which would make you emaciated. You would fail an army physical at that weight. Your really need to stop lying.
You obviously came to the tough love forum seeking help but first you have to stop the delusional crazy talk and blatant lying.
If you come clean about your real weight the folks here will be willing to help you but if you are here to cause trouble you will be ignored. Deep down you don't want to be fat girl but until you lose the fattitude I don't see it happening.
The tough love forum is for people who are serious. I know that you want to be lean and attractive but it is clear that at this time you lack the psychological fortitude to do what it takes not to be fat.
If you can grow up and at least act like a grown woman I will help you reach your goals but you need to grow up first.
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BossladyKim
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 10:06 am |
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| I told myself I wouldnt respond to this #%@&! but you questioning my dedication to my country and the military crossed the line... you are nobody to me and i have nothing to prove to you.. seems like you were too sissy enough to go on the call of duty for your country. I chose to make a difference to my country and served for the Army. 12th AVN aviation battalion HHC 5/158th Giebelstadt, Germany.. look it up... that unit isnt in Germany anymore but you can still look it up. I was a 92F which is petroleum supply specialist, i didnt push papers and sit at a desk, i busted my #%@&! outside in the heat and cold weather refueling aircraft. I was the only female in my platoon hence the nickname BOSSLADY because I shut every male down when it came to PT. Ran with the best of them push ups sit ups 2 mile run in 15:00 or less. I was in OIF/OEF from 2003-2004, the start of this war and I lost a lot of fellow veterans in this war so you can shove your ego and your allegations and your sick thoughts up your azz. At a size 6 I was not 125.. didnt I tell you I was 5'11? that means I have long limbs and torso which allowed a lot of muscle, a firm 6 pack and 6% body fat. I was 150lbs , everyones body is different, I thought you knew that genius. Kim K's azz is not no 36.5" she has wide hips and a bubble butt so you can probably add 2 more inches to that. Where do you get these pictures? I bet you stare at the real big fat ones because you are probably a closet chubby chaser. LOL! I will post a pic when I am good and ready I havent been on this site for long. Oh and Mr. English professor you need to proof read your own #%@&! before you correct my spelling and grammar! You need to grow up, I am very grown I have my own place, car , money, pay my bills on time and I take care of my children like a real mother is suppose to do. I bet you still live with your mother... tisk tisk
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grangers710
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 10:36 am |
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| Kim don't listen to this tool. He's an idiot that knows nothing. I'm guessing he's 12 living in a single family that himself is fat and been picked on his whole life has nothing else do to but come here and sound like an idiot under the tough love section. A real winner for sure.... I'd be interested in how many people have left this site after his BS ramblings about "fatitude" yes he is a world changer in the finess arena. No longer will I read this junk so continue on insulting people in ur ignorance and knowing zero about anything ur speaking of. The joys of the internet....
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BossladyKim
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 11:18 am |
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| He has some SERIOUS issues, you are right, he probably was a fat kid and got teased alot, and now that he is skinny with no muscles I guess he feels he can criticize overweight people. I am sure all those people in those pictures he posts didnt wake up and decided to pack on 100lbs. This dude has no compassion for people and their individual dilemmas with weight control...he is a sad case, probably checked hisself out of rehab... i hope they find him and put him back in his padded room.
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grangers710
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 11:22 am |
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| Watch put though Kim a post about ur fatitude and me being a girly man is coming.....might as well put this moron on repeat.....
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BossladyKim
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 11:30 am |
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| LMAO!!! this dude is like sweat on my back... it just rolls off. My mind is much tougher than his, if he thinks he is getting in my head with his ridiculous ebonics then he is more ignorant than i thought.
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JSABD
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 04:49 pm |
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JSABD
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 05:02 pm |
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grangers710 wrote: Kim don't listen to this tool. He's an idiot that knows nothing. I'm guessing he's 12 living in a single family that himself is fat and been picked on his whole life has nothing else do to but come here and sound like an idiot under the tough love section. A real winner for sure.... I'd be interested in how many people have left this site after his BS ramblings about "fatitude" yes he is a world changer in the finess arena. No longer will I read this junk so continue on insulting people in ur ignorance and knowing zero about anything ur speaking of. The joys of the internet....
CPH is the most effective weight loss forum on the net.
Like FatLadyKim you too have no self control and you are also a lousy speller.
If that is you in the avatar all I can say is LOL!! Only a real jerk would get pumped, stand in front of a mirror an flex and then post it on a weight loss sight. It's actually kinda pathetic and normally I would cut you some slack but you are just too much of a jerk. I won't let it slide.
OK girly man we will take your flabby buttocks and stretch it between two trees and flab hammock for you to lie in.
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BossladyKim
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 05:04 pm |
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| i didnt even finish reading that #%@&! but you will never mention my family. you need Jesus...
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JSABD
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 05:16 pm |
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BossladyKim
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 05:22 pm |
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| and look up Tyra Banks stats if you think my size isnt possible and is it possible to have grown women that wear a size 0 .. thats crazy but the truth is there are many women that size and i dont have to show you my dd214 to prove nothing to you..you are worthless pathetic and stupid you dont have a girlfriend and rely on mommy to feed and clothe you. you dont work and if you do its probably fast food and you have a small penis with a pizza face from all the steroids that failed. and thats BOSSLADY to you little boy
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grangers710
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 05:35 pm |
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| Yep I'm fat have no self control and a jerk. Ur ultimate knowledge is incredible. Normally I'd go back and forth but I'm done. Ur ignorance and ultimate lack of knowledge on weight loss and fitness is apparent. Enjoy ur rough love soapbox I'm thru with u.
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BossladyKim
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 06:41 pm |
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| you are funny
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JSABD
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 07:18 pm |
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BossladyKim wrote: i didnt even finish reading that #%@&! but you will never mention my family. you need Jesus...
You need Richard Simmons.
BTW Miss Christian gluttony is one of the 7 deadly sins. Repent sinner!
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JSABD
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 08:02 pm |
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BossladyKim wrote: and look up Tyra Banks stats if you think my size isnt possible and is it possible to have grown women that wear a size 0 .. thats crazy but the truth is there are many women that size and i don't have to show you my dd214 to prove nothing to you..you are worthless pathetic and stupid you dont have a girlfriend and rely on mommy to feed and clothe you. you dont work and if you do its probably fast food and you have a small penis with a pizza face from all the steroids that failed. and that's BOSSLADY to you little boy
Hoss"Lady",
A woman over 5'5" can't fit into a size zero and be healthy.
Your punctuation sucks too. At least you are now using a lower case I maybe you are learning some much needed humility.
Your entire response was not very Christian and you are the one telling me me that I need Jesus.
You lied about Tyra Banks. She is an inch shorter than you and she wears a size 8 at her leanest.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1219965/Tyra-Banks-feels-great-slimming-size-8-dramatic-weight-loss.html
 
You got caught in yet another lie.
You are a fat GIRL! You know how to maintain a healthy weight but the only thing motivating you is your vanity. Real women are not vain. Woman up fat girl!
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JSABD
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 08:09 pm |
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grangers710 wrote: Yep I'm fat have no self control and a jerk. Ur ultimate knowledge is incredible. Normally I'd go back and forth but I'm done. Ur ignorance and ultimate lack of knowledge on weight loss and fitness is apparent. Enjoy ur rough love soapbox I'm thru with u.
I'm happy to see that my object lessons got through to you fat boy.
BTW, Ancient Ur was the birthplace of Abraham.
If you are done with me good. We don't need your kind disrupting the forum but I do thank you for allowing me to make an example of you. Nobody forced you to participate in the Tough Love forum. Go someplace else and whine like a girl.
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itsallaboutme2012
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 09:46 pm |
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Wow! I thought I'd come over here for a kick in the butt to get myself motivated.. instead, insults! lol JSABD has some serious anger & self hate issues. That's so sad.
Isn't there a moderator or someone that can delete this persons posts?
Calling someone names or attempting to know what they think (like in your post about how overweight women bring in food to work and are jealous of thin women), is just not true and not helpful at all. I'm not jealous of thin women, I always ask what they do to stay in shape! lol
It's nice to have someone motivate you but being degrading won't work and will most likely run people off who are suffering with weight issues. If they're anything like me, they already feel pretty low about themselves.. it really isn't about overeating there could be other emotional issues contributing.
Posting pics of fat vs thin people is just creepy too.. is this how you spend your time searching google images? LoL.
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itsallaboutme2012
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 09:54 pm |
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| I also wanted to point out, your odd choice of images to post. Thin superfit women VS. extremely overweight, there is an in-between, just sayin'
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BossladyKim
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Posted: 8 Jan 2012 11:09 pm |
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| Thank you :)
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JSABD
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Posted: 9 Jan 2012 02:28 am |
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itsallaboutme2012 wrote: Wow! I thought I'd come over here for a kick in the butt to get myself motivated.. instead, insults! lol JSABD has some serious anger & self hate issues. That's so sad.
Isn't there a moderator or someone that can delete this persons posts?
Calling someone names or attempting to know what they think (like in your post about how overweight women bring in food to work and are jealous of thin women), is just not true and not helpful at all. I'm not jealous of thin women, I always ask what they do to stay in shape! lol
It's nice to have someone motivate you but being degrading won't work and will most likely run people off who are suffering with weight issues. If they're anything like me, they already feel pretty low about themselves.. it really isn't about overeating there could be other emotional issues contributing.
Posting pics of fat vs thin people is just creepy too.. is this how you spend your time searching google images? LoL.
Another egoistic fat girl chimes in.
It could be emotional issues? Then 75% of Americans have emotional issues. Of course all that pig out for "emotional reasons"Â rarely identify those mysterious reasons and if they do they never overcome them.
Fat people have low self esteem? It's actually just the opposite. Skinny women have what you fat girls call low self esteem. What they actually have is something you fat girls don't have. It's called humility.
Fat girls are#%@&!tish and have high self esteem. Here is proof from Fat Bastard's website.
Fat Bastard is a meticulous researcher and all his articles are sourced. I respect Fat Bastard because he admits that he and all other fatlings are gluttons. He's an honest guy.
From Bigger Fatter Politics! http://biggerfatterpolitics.blogspot.com/
This is Fat Bastard
A google search reveals the following.
Fat MILF gets About 9,850,000 results (0.30 seconds)
Skinny MILF gets About 3,590,000 results (0.15 seconds)
Skinny Woman returns About 8,610,000 results (0.63 seconds) 99% fully clothed women.
Fat Woman returns About 30,800,000 results (0.25 seconds) most showing beaver or tits.
This proves two things. Fat girls are bigger#%@&!s and they have a better body image than skinny women.
I'm not complaining because like every red blooded American male I love#%@&!s. The point I am making is quite simple.
If you want to go toe to toe with Fat Bastard here is his site http://biggerfatterpolitics.blogspot.com/2011/07/google-search-proves-it-fat-girls-are.html
Fat girls do not have low "self-esteem" and they are far more#%@&!tish than skinny women.
This is important because the ole girls NAAFA network would like you to believe that fat females suffer from low self esteem and poor body image. Clearly this is NOT the case. Other data shows that fat girls are far more promiscuous.
[size=A]bout a couple weeks ago, you might have heard about a study out of the University of Hawaii that found overweight and obese women (BMI>25) had ?����?�more sex?������� than normal-weighted ones. The study was all over the news because it challenged what we would generally believe ?�����ǣ after all, ?����?�skinny?������� women are hotter, so they should have more sex.
[size=T]he study surveyed over 7,000 women aged 15-44 about their sexual habits, and a higher percentage of the larger women reported having had sex. The researchers admitted they were surprised. ?����?�These results were unexpected and we don?�������t really know why this is the case,?����?� said lead researcher Dr Bliss Kaneshiro.
[size=I]f you bring together the two parts, it seems obvious why overweight and obese women would have more sex. Because of a lack of impulse control, the hefty ladies are more likely to say ?����?�yes?������� to a man?�������s advances.
[size=T]he study had surveyed about 7000 women aged 16-44 about their sexual habits and women who had a higher BMI (body mass index) reportedly had more sex then women that fell in a normal BMI index. The people conducting the survey found the results to be surprising and unexpected. Tell that to a million dollar porn industry solely based on BBW?����?�s.
[size=A]ccording to a study published in the British Medical Journal, people who are obese are less likely to have been sexually active in the past year, but surprisingly, they're more likely than people with an average body weight to have sexually transmitted diseases and unplanned pregnancies. I'm no rocket scientist, but something tells me those are the results of not practicing safe sex.
[size=R]esearchers in France surveyed 12,364 men and women between the ages of 18 and 69. Half of the participants were in the normal weight range, while the rest were overweight or obese. The survey showed that obese women were 30 percent less likely to have had sex at all in the past year, while obese men were 70 percent less likely to have had more than one sexual partner.
[size=R]esearch presented at the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists 58th Annual Clinical Meeting last month backs up these findings. Data from the CDC's Youth Risk Behavior Survey shows that obese and overweight adolescent girls are less likely to use condoms or other birth control methods.
[size=I]mpulsiveness, the very thing that makes fat girls#%@&!s is the reason they go down like submarines. Food#%@&!s are#%@&!s. Chalk it up to high self-esteem. Past research has showed that obesity is related to poor body image, which now has been proven to be bunk. High-risk sexual behavior, like unsafe sex shows that the same lack on inhibitions that makes fat girls fat and gluttonous make them more promiscuous. And it's not just women. The survey also showed that obese men were much more apt to have had an STD, despite fewer sexual partners. Fat guys don't get laid much.
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The data proves it. Fat girls have high self esteem and they act like#%@&!s. Slender women are far more lady like. Slender women have self control. Fat girls lack self control. That's why they eat too much and have casual sex, more STD and more unplanned pregnancies. It truly is a character issue with you fat girls.
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itsallaboutme2012
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Posted: 9 Jan 2012 05:32 pm |
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ok, well I never had an STD, nor an unplanned pregnancy.
I agree with one point, however, I NEVER personally used birth control but the men I've been with use condoms or we simply wouldn't have had sex. When I got married, we still used condoms, then he got a vasectomy because HE didn't like using condoms. I feel like men should be responsible for birth control, because women are responsible for pregnancies..... Maybe outdated, but I don't care! I feel bad to say that I turn down my husband more than I should because I'm exhausted after working all day then taking care of the kids and housework at night. However, I've turned down sex purely because I am fat and I don't like how I look- he likes me no matter what I look like and prefers the lights on, I'm more about lights off and don't look at me. The thought of him seeing my fat jiggling makes me feel extremely self conscious.
I definitely feel low about my weight, which is why I'm trying to lose it now. I can't speak for other women, whether skinny, average, or heavy how they feel about themselves, but I feel low and don't like the way I look, I don't like what I see in the mirror, I don't like the way my clothes fit, I don't like the size I'm in.. so I'm making a change.
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JSABD
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Posted: 9 Jan 2012 06:21 pm |
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itsallaboutme2012
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Posted: 9 Jan 2012 08:15 pm |
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Your anger is deep rooted... Obviously you were an unplanned pregnancy... your father should have pulled out- maybe that's why he abandoned you and your skinny#%@&! mother years ago! Maybe it was because she gained some weight when she got knocked up with you and he has the same kindergarden mentality that you do and left her. When your mother was pregnant with you, she gained weight... why? Because she's a fat pig, according to you. Here's an idea, faggot.. get a JOB, stop hanging on the internet gooling images of fat and skinny women, stop watching BBW porn, get out of your mom's basement and get a life and stop harassing people behing a keyboard you coward.
I'm sorry fat women don't like your micro penis, that's not my fault. I'm sorry overweight women won't sleep with you, even though in your opinion they are#%@&!s. Fat or thin, no woman would want you for who you really are and that's the bottom line, maybe a fat girl dumped you once too many times? I don't know and I don't really care.
Now be a good little boy and go clean your room, weirdo!
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BossladyKim
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Posted: 9 Jan 2012 09:45 pm |
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| I don't think I have laughed so hard all week! That was the funniest ever!!! I totally agree 100% this dude has some mommy issues.. She's probably about 600lbs and she has turned him into her slave and he brings her food and washes her fat blubber with baby wipes. Dude you need to run to your nearest church you are doomed to #%@&! if you don't!
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itsallaboutme2012
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Posted: 10 Jan 2012 12:10 am |
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JSABD is a moron, clearly.... and a walking contradiction. I especially like his use of cool words like "fattitude" and "womyn". Impressive!!
Right now he's probably funnel feeding his fat mother while he thinks of super cool comebacks and different names to call people.
And for the love of God JSABD.. STOP sending me private messages telling me you're not really mean the way you are here... My husband will break those scrawny arms of yours in half- we thought your avatar was a woman! Teeny-Tiny man!
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JSABD
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Tankgirl
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Posted: 10 Jan 2012 02:01 pm |
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This may be too late since this is already turning into another flame way, but.
It's not necessarily bad to to lose weight for someone else, IF you're losing it because you want the best for them. Where a lot of people go wrong ( and heaven knows I've done this)is losing weight to change someone else's behavior. I "tried" to lose weight to make my grandmother happy so she'd stop nagging at me. Nagging was just something she did if it wasn't my weight it would be something else. A lot of people "try" to lose weight so their spouses will treat them differently, when the damage has already been done. If the spouse in question doesn't start treating them better after a small weight loss, that person will be pretty discouraged and likely give up.
If you're willing to lose weight for someone else and make it a permanent change,you need to be willing to stay the course even if nobody else changes their behavior.
Here's where I disagree for making it the sole motivation for losing weight. It's either short-sighted or dishonest. There are just too many benefits to losing weight.
1) you're more employable and statistically will make more
2) It just feels better when you have more strength and stamina when you need it - or just want to have some fun (Not necessarily that kind of fun either! I mean like spending all day walking around sightseeing and not feeling like you want to die at the end of the day)
3.) Working out/bicycling is one of the few ways to pick up my mood and fight stress that doesn't have any side effects.
In the end, my husband isn't going to care how much I can leg press or bench press. He's supportive but it's in the "mmmhmmm that's interesting" category that gets filtered out, LOL. And that's okay. My eyes glaze over a little bit when he shows me the newest 45 record to his collection from some band I've never heard of that was around when our parents were kids, so we each have our own
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JSABD
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Posted: 10 Jan 2012 02:33 pm |
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Tankgirl wrote: This may be too late since this is already turning into another flame way, but.
It's not necessarily bad to to lose weight for someone else, IF you're losing it because you want the best for them. Where a lot of people go wrong ( and heaven knows I've done this)is losing weight to change someone else's behavior. I "tried" to lose weight to make my grandmother happy so she'd stop nagging at me. Nagging was just something she did if it wasn't my weight it would be something else. A lot of people "try" to lose weight so their spouses will treat them differently, when the damage has already been done. If the spouse in question doesn't start treating them better after a small weight loss, that person will be pretty discouraged and likely give up.
If you're willing to lose weight for someone else and make it a permanent change,you need to be willing to stay the course even if nobody else changes their behavior.
Here's where I disagree for making it the sole motivation for losing weight. It's either short-sighted or dishonest. There are just too many benefits to losing weight.
1) you're more employable and statistically will make more
2) It just feels better when you have more strength and stamina when you need it - or just want to have some fun (Not necessarily that kind of fun either! I mean like spending all day walking around sightseeing and not feeling like you want to die at the end of the day)
3.) Working out/bicycling is one of the few ways to pick up my mood and fight stress that doesn't have any side effects.
In the end, my husband isn't going to care how much I can leg press or bench press. He's supportive but it's in the "mmmhmmm that's interesting" category that gets filtered out, LOL. And that's okay. My eyes glaze over a little bit when he shows me the newest 45 record to his collection from some band I've never heard of that was around when our parents were kids, so we each have our own
In the simplest term if we can be the best we can be for loved one then we are living right. Asking a spouse to accept bad behavior and self induced bad health is cruel. Forcing a child to endure a bad parent/role model is way past cruel but self indulging gluttons are too piggish to even consider that.
Of course this turned into a flame war. A couple of gluttons could handle the the cold hard truth.
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Steampunk
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Posted: 15 Jan 2012 02:56 am |
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Ooooh so much to address in here...I don't think I'll touch most of it though...
I will, however, say that it shouldn't matter why a person is losing weight as long as it's for a positive reason. You are the only person you have to live with on a daily basis permanently, no exceptions. It's really idealistic to believe that people actually make choices based on what's best for others they don't even know exist. #%@&!, there are people who don't even care that their decisions affect people they do know. Why is it such a point of contention as long as the weight comes off? The idea of selflessness is silly.
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JSABD
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Posted: 15 Jan 2012 05:57 pm |
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Steampunk wrote: Ooooh so much to address in here...I don't think I'll touch most of it though...
I will, however, say that it shouldn't matter why a person is losing weight as long as it's for a positive reason. You are the only person you have to live with on a daily basis permanently, no exceptions. It's really idealistic to believe that people actually make choices based on what's best for others they don't even know exist. #%@&!, there are people who don't even care that their decisions affect people they do know. Why is it such a point of contention as long as the weight comes off? The idea of selflessness is silly.
The motivation does matter. With fatlings food trumps all else. They care more abouut their own creature comforts.
Gluttony is never a good thing. Monks would sprinkle ashes on their food to dull the flavor. The knew the dangers of gluttony to the spirit. Obesity in most cases if the result of a moral failing. Food has encroached on important parts of person's life.
We have discussed the heavenly virtues and the deadly sins here before. Gluttony is a moral failing.
I could make every glutton here lose weight. I'd simply lock them in a room and feed them right but because of fattitude gluttons lack the self control to stay on a weight loss plan. They are weak willed and that is a moral failing.
I want every glutton here to read up on the 7 deadly sins and the heavenly or cardinal virtues.
Last edited on 15 Jan 2012 06:00 pm by JSABD
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Steampunk
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Posted: 15 Jan 2012 10:35 pm |
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It's merely your opinion that it matters. Saying otherwise amounts to little more than making a sweeping generalization in an effort to antagonize. Expecting anyone to believe that no one in the history of the world has ever lost weight for their own benefit and been successful is downright laughable.
Morals are subjective. Basing any argument on something as subjective as morals and/or religion is a way to fail before you even begin. What is right and what is wrong is not absolute. Arguments wouldn't exist if they were.
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suzy
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Posted: 16 Jan 2012 02:14 am |
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"I have to do this for me" is a famous pseudo profoundity that many fat girls blurt out when considering weight loss. It's BS. It's complete and total BS.
There is nothing wrong for wanting to lose weight for ME.
"OK fat girl why do you have to do this for you? That's the problem. You eat like a pig for you because you like the way it feels. That is what you are doing for you. You don't care what your gluttony is doing to your loved ones because if you did you would eat responsibly. You barely give your negative effect on others a second thought."
There's so much to touch on here. First, I overate ONCE in my life. I did not like the way it felt, I was sick to my stomach and never did that again! My problem was NOT with overeating or eating to a point of fullness, or about negatively affecting others. My issue was with the food I was eating. I was consuming high calorie food, but really not a lot of food related to quantity.
A typical day for me would start out with a candy bar for my breakfast, followed by a large coffee with extra cream, lots of calories in that. Another medium cup of coffee w/ extra cream while preparing dinner for my family, and my dinner was usually a pint of very fattening ice cream (2000 calories in one pint.) I'd eat that pint at night, AFTER I cooked for my family, did the dinner dishes, prepared the kids lunches for the next day, made up my husband's lunch, did laundry, ironed school clothes, swept/mopped the kitchen floor, vacuumed, washed the windows, cleaned up the bathroom, fed the cat, paid the bills, ran errands, got my own things ready for work the next day, giving the kids their baths, packing their backpacks for the next day, helping with homework, etc., etc., My children were sleeping when I ate that ice cream, and they're in school during the day so all they saw me consume was that cup of medium coffee.
My point in telling you all this, and why I feel I NEED to finally do something for myself is because I did everything for my family and NOTHING for myself. I gave 100% of my time and energy to meeting everyone elses' needs and ignored my own needs. I realize my error in that and also realize that in order to be a good mother to my kids, in order to be a good wife to my husband, I NEED to be a little selfish and do more for myself and losing weight is one thing on that list.
Your opinion is just that, an opinion. For example, it is your belief that I ate like a pig. Fact is, I ate what was quick so I could take care of everyone else. If you followed me and my husband around for a day, you would see that he consumes a lot more food in quantity than I did, so there goes your theory right out the window. My husband is tall and lean, but can eat anyone under the table, and he inhales his food. He will think nothing of going to BK and ordering a double whopper with cheese, making the meal large, asking for extra onion ring sauce, then having a "few" dollar burgers on the side. I honestly don't know how he can eat the way he does and stay lean, but it is what it is. I would get a cheeseburger extra pickles and a small coke, no fries or sides for me, ever.
"Let's take the fat mother. She has to do it for her kids and if she doesn't she's a BAD MOTHER!"
Really? So if you're a father, does it make you a bad father that you are wasting precious time online with all this ridiculous name calling and ridicule? A proper role model, father OR mother would not be degrading anyone for their children or spouse to observe or hear, it only teaches hate and prejudice. Further, it's a wasteful way to spend your time. So I would say based upon your writings, if you're a father, you are a very bad father.
"Come at me fatties and tell me how mean I am."
Not sure what to say to the above statement, as it seems you get turned on by fat women acting angry towards you in some demented way.
I think I'm fat, that's MY opinion of myself, but I'm not going to "come at you" because it's pretty immature. I don't know your age but your mentality is that of a teenager. I take that back... I have a teenage son who has maturity and wouldn't act this way, but I think you get what I'm saying here. I can't imagine where all your rage stems from. You don't like fat women? That's your choice. But why are you posting images of them all over the place? I don't get it, you're actually spending time looking for photos to post of extremely obese women. WHY? How many hours per day are you spending with this hobby of yours? How much time does this take away from your family??
I was wearing a size 14 and noticed they were getting tight. That's when I decided to research information on how many calories I should be consuming. I didn't realize, however, that I was consuming as many as I did, that was a real wake up call. It's only been a few weeks but my pants aren't tight anymore and I've added in exercise this past week and I'm feeling pretty good about it. I don't look like the ladies in the photos you plastered on this site, but what if I did? I still don't get what you're trying to do. How could demeaning anyone really benefit them? Do you have personal experience to feel so much hatred towards fat women in general? Something must have happened to you to be THIS cruel. I don't like the way those women look either, I find it unattractive and just plain gross! I've never seen a woman with her stomach hanging out of her dress, that's just obscene and same goes for a man who dressed that way, there are big clothes that fit everyone. What I find gross is that she isn't wearing a dress that covers her properly. That being said, I'm not obsessing over it like it seems you are.
A friend of mine had OCD and started taking Paxil (I believe it was) and it helped him TREMENDOUSLY with his OCD. I would consider looking into that before this obese obsession takes over your life, if it already hasn't.
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Tankgirl
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Posted: 16 Jan 2012 03:28 am |
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Suzy ,
I completely agree with you and I see a lot of similarities here
Candy bar for breakfast, and a coffee, were you trying to get a sugar and caffeine rush to get through your morning? Sounds like what I used to do.
I still contend that eating more expensive healthy food and taking time out out to exercise seems more selfish at first than eating the readily available junk. It means saying no to a few things and putting a few people out.
And then there's the thing that's made the biggest thing that has helped me lose weight that seems like pure hedonism to me - getting enough sleep!
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