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The Enablers, Saboteurs and Seducers
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JSABD
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 Posted: 7 Dec 2011 05:18 am
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They are not your friends.

The fat girls at work who bring in junk food an tell you it's OK to eat it. They are not much different than druggies or pot heads.

Then you have the jealous fat girl liars who tell you that you look good when you know you are 30 pounds over weight.

Then you have the spouse who tells you you are still attractive in order to salve you or to indulge their food lust along with you.

Turn off the Food Network. You are already too food centric.

Stop talking about food with your fat friends. Change the subject or simply tell the fatty to stop babbling about food.

The food industry want you fat because fat people eat more.

The medical industry wants you fat because fat people get sick more often.

Grow a spine and stand up to the saboteurs, seducers and enablers.

Fat boys try the large and in charge #%@&! and real men just laugh them off but fat girls can be cruel to slender women and slender women are usually humble to a fault and they take the barbs of fat girls seriously instead of saying, "What a pathetic fat girl loser. I should flirt with her husband just to piss her off."

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 Posted: 7 Dec 2011 07:26 am
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Nice timing, considering this is usually the time for the holiday calorie bomb gauntlet. My survival strategy to listen to "We're not gonna Take it" by Twisted Sister when I'm dealing with the food pushers.

Anyone else notice that the holiday food pushers have dialed it back a lot because money is tight and nobody wants to feed the rest of the office?

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 Posted: 7 Dec 2011 07:02 pm
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JSABD wrote: Then you have the jealous fat girl liars who tell you that you look good when you know you are 30 pounds over weight.

Don't forget the girls who are obese themselves and tell you that you looked better fat. My freshman year of college, I was in great shape but I had two roommates who were obese and neither one of them really had anything nice to say to me. The one was maybe 250? I don't know, I can't really tell peoples' weigh but she was heavy. She remarked that I looked better before I lost any weight which is total bull. The other girl was 300+? Very large, veeerrrryyy... I seem to recall her saying that she didn't understand why I worked out so hard and watched what I ate when I was so thin. Maybe if she understood that, she wouldn't have been so fat herself?

Oh, and don't forget the people who try to discourage you from working out because they couldn't do it themselves. I believe that if you find something that works and is healthy, you should do it regardless of what people think. For me, back then, that was Curves. That's how I got in shape and I enjoyed it. My cousin, though, was always snotty with me. She was about 39 at the time and was hateful and bitter enough over her own weight that right when I first started, she insisted that it was "stupid because like it's so boring. All you do is like go in a circle getting on different machines while you listen to stupid music. I even brought a friend with me once and we were like so bored." Cut to a month later and I've already dropped 9 pounds. By the time I had to stop my membership, I was down 30 pounds.

JSABD
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 Posted: 14 Dec 2011 01:59 am
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Steampunk wrote:
JSABD wrote: Then you have the jealous fat girl liars who tell you that you look good when you know you are 30 pounds over weight.

Don't forget the girls who are obese themselves and tell you that you looked better fat. My freshman year of college, I was in great shape but I had two roommates who were obese and neither one of them really had anything nice to say to me. The one was maybe 250? I don't know, I can't really tell peoples' weigh but she was heavy. She remarked that I looked better before I lost any weight which is total bull. The other girl was 300+? Very large, veeerrrryyy... I seem to recall her saying that she didn't understand why I worked out so hard and watched what I ate when I was so thin. Maybe if she understood that, she wouldn't have been so fat herself?

Oh, and don't forget the people who try to discourage you from working out because they couldn't do it themselves. I believe that if you find something that works and is healthy, you should do it regardless of what people think. For me, back then, that was Curves. That's how I got in shape and I enjoyed it. My cousin, though, was always snotty with me. She was about 39 at the time and was hateful and bitter enough over her own weight that right when I first started, she insisted that it was "stupid because like it's so boring. All you do is like go in a circle getting on different machines while you listen to stupid music. I even brought a friend with me once and we were like so bored." Cut to a month later and I've already dropped 9 pounds. By the time I had to stop my membership, I was down 30 pounds.


Fat girls are the worst. They see every other female as competition for the sausage. Fat girls love sausage.:pig:

becoming_myself
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 Posted: 3 Jan 2012 07:14 pm
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Yes. I'm in high school and most of the teens are either skinny because they're lucky and have high metabolisms, in shape because they're in sports, or just overweight. I'm trying to get in shape and I bring my lunch every day all natural all organic foods and of course being in high school most the kids don't understand. The skinny kids ask why I have to eat the food I do while they sit there eating their chips and cookies. The sport kids just look at me weird. The fat kids all try to push food on me and tell me I look good. When I tell them about my workout sessions they typically ask if I'm in a sport. When I say no they all look at me like I'm some idiot insane person. The skinny people again ask why in a condesending tone. The fat people tell me to stop and accept who I am. The sport people just nod their head but in a way that makes it seem like I shouldn't be working out because I don't play a sport so there's no point.

It's an ongoing circle of ignorance.

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 Posted: 3 Jan 2012 08:45 pm
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covert nutrition and covert fitness = relaxing weight loss journey.  Screw what other people think, its your body, your life, your goals, not theirs.  They mean NOTHING.

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 Posted: 3 Jan 2012 09:06 pm
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Sounds like a very angry post. Energy out = energy back. Perhaps having some compassion for those who are suffering...

although I do believe the food industry and the pharmaceutical industry want to make the most amount of money possible, and keeping people addicted to sugar and refined, processed foods and sick because of it, is the best way for them to do that.

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 Posted: 6 Jan 2012 05:32 pm
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SueAnne wrote:
Sounds like a very angry post. Energy out = energy back. Perhaps having some compassion for those who are suffering...

although I do believe the food industry and the pharmaceutical industry want to make the most amount of money possible, and keeping people addicted to sugar and refined, processed foods and sick because of it, is the best way for them to do that.


What's wrong with angry? Anger is valid and motivating emotion. Fat people are not suffering. Eating feels god to them.

The cards are stacked against everyone but we can't use that as an excuse. Nobody is twisting the chubby arms of fat people.

The food companies are exploiting the weak character of fatlings. Grow up!


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