| Tough Love is NOT Fat Hatred |
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JSABD
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Posted: 23 Aug 2011 07:30 pm |
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I don't hate fat and neither should you. All fat is is stored fuel.
I don't hate fat people. I just don't have much respect for them and therefore I don't show them much respect. As to the people who exploit fat people ie the fat exploitation shows, the fat acceptance nuts, doctors and the weight loss industry I can't say that I hate them but if they all dropped dead tomorrow I would probably be happy.
I am much tougher on fat boys than I am on fat girls. Fat boys have the good sense not to engage an alpha male like me. Fat girls like sparring with me because at least it gives them a chance to engage the kind of man they know they can never have even if that contact is negative. The won't accept the fact that they can never be alpha females or ever be woman enough for an alpha male. All I can say is get over it girls.
In my efforts to halt the gluttony crisis I have warned people about the dangers of WLS. A person who hates fat people would not do that. WLS kills! WLS maims! While gluttony is very distasteful gluttons reap what they sow but none deserve to die for it even though gluttony maims and kills. WLS kills and maims more. Gluttony is reversible but gastric bypass isn't.
My approach is unpopular because I don't salve gluttons or excuse their gluttony. I don't care if I am liked. Every knock I get from some fatling in denial is a boost. When I see someone like Tank reforming and getting real I see somebody sticking it to the corporations who are exploiting growing rich of the obesity epidemic. I see a person becoming empowered and self-reliant. I see a person becoming inner directed. I see personal growth and all took was challenging her thinking. She challenged her thinking and attitudes. With my help she has added years to her life and life to her years. She will not suffer the ravages of gluttony/obesity. She will be around as a positive role model and a good wife and mother. She is already helping others using my proven methods. She is not a saboteur. She is not playing the victim. She is taking responsibility and I suspect she has a tougher row to hoe than most fatlings.
Hate? I think not!
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Tankgirl
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Posted: 23 Aug 2011 07:57 pm |
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WARNING : the following post is graphic and disgusting.
JS,
As interesting as I find your ideas, You're not the reason I do this.
Back when I was in a HS health class, my teacher resurrected a 1970's educational film called "Dead is Dead" about the dangers of drugs. It was the health equivalent of the "Blood on the Highway" films they showed in Driver's ed. It showed heroin addicts putting rocks of heroin directly into the wounds on their legs. People nearly threw up in class.
The last year for me has been a real life obesity version of "Dead is Dead" I almost wish that someone would make it, but that would probably be too politically incorrect for the US. I can't look at any food containing processed sugar without thinking of what that kind of food did to my uncle.I know you said it's gluttony that does it and not the food itself, but I've developed an aversion to sugar since then.
We also know each other from another forum. There's a guy there that shared his feelings about his wife's weight and I didn't want my husband feeling that way. Hubs put his future on the line by marrying me. If I fail to take care of my body the medical bills are his responsibility, too. I promised him that if it's in my control, I won't make him sit in a hospital for me unless we come out of there with a baby. (In my control meaning talking care of my health and looking out for bad drivers.)
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JSABD
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Posted: 24 Aug 2011 03:24 am |
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Tankgirl wrote: WARNING : the following post is graphic and disgusting.
JS,
As interesting as I find your ideas, You're not the reason I do this.
Back when I was in a HS health class, my teacher resurrected a 1970's educational film called "Dead is Dead" about the dangers of drugs. It was the health equivalent of the "Blood on the Highway" films they showed in Driver's ed. It showed heroin addicts putting rocks of heroin directly into the wounds on their legs. People nearly threw up in class.
The last year for me has been a real life obesity version of "Dead is Dead" I almost wish that someone would make it, but that would probably be too politically incorrect for the US. I can't look at any food containing processed sugar without thinking of what that kind of food did to my uncle.I know you said it's gluttony that does it and not the food itself, but I've developed an aversion to sugar since then.
We also know each other from another forum. There's a guy there that shared his feelings about his wife's weight and I didn't want my husband feeling that way. Hubs put his future on the line by marrying me. If I fail to take care of my body the medical bills are his responsibility, too. I promised him that if it's in my control, I won't make him sit in a hospital for me unless we come out of there with a baby. (In my control meaning talking care of my health and looking out for bad drivers.)
I take the drill instructor approach and it is not pleasant and it is not supposed to be pleasant. Not only do I want fatlings to develop an aversion to certain unhealthy foods. O want them to develop an aversion to their attitude/fattitudes and behaviors that are killing them. I don't want them to feel good about their destructive behaviors and if means they don't feel good about themselves so be it. This is called spitting in their soup.
If you are fat and you don't like the fact that I tell you that you are a glutton or have the behavior of a glutton sue me.
If you don't like hearing the truth about your selfish and thoughtless behaviors and how it negatively impacts upon others then don't read what I write.
I don't want you to feel good about what you are doing and how it effects others. I want you to feel horrible until you change and grow up and stop being a glutton.
Oh you hate that word glutton glutton but you can't prove that you are not a glutton because you are a glutton. It it talks like a glutton waddles like a glutton and eats like a glutton it's a glutton.
Tankwoman considered what her behavior was doing to her husband and she changed it. It's called altruism. Try it!
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